PUA Tips: 5 ways to stay motivated

A lot of us, at times, feel in need of an extra push, because of whatever circumstances and we may be unsure on how to get it. So I decided to put together a simple list of 5 ways to keep yourself pushing forward without falling back. #1-Visualize...

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PUA Tips: 3 different kinds of women

Hello,

 Today I wanted to get into the kinds of women that I feel every guy should know about. To my personal belief there are 3 types of women. First you have the most interested...

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PUA Tips: The 1 thing that women really want

Some of you may know of a man named Pete Cashmore. Pete is one of the most successful bloggers on the internet. This guy is only 29 years old and already worth 95 million dollars that he made from some blog that he started in his home in Scotland. You may be thinking why am I bringing him up…

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PUA Tips: 4 Awkward Moments in PUA and what to do

1. Greeting your target.

What you should do:

-Make eye-contact and introduce yourself like a normal human being. There is no real need to use any fancy pick-up line in my opinion. A simple “What is your name?” or “Hello” will do just fine.

What we...

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PUA Tips: 4 ways to beat social anxiety

I know a lot of us may find ourselves at points where we begin to feel overwhelmed. This is usually when around women, as well as around people we don’t know extremely well. I thought I might focus on…

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PUA News: Feminazi Outrage

PUA News: Feminazi Outrage


What’s up everyone?

I recently noticed how feminists have been making a lot of noise lately. I see them releasing videos about ‘Street Harassment’ and getting people to sign petitions in order to take certain controversial PUA’s *Cough* “RSD Julien” *Cough* off the internet.

These “Feminazis” are quite a bunch and...

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Guest Posting: Make the “right” mistake: overdo it. -Dating tips by Josh Sway-

Make the “right” mistake: overdo it. *Now in this post there is some great advice from a good guy I know, he is very knowledgeable of the dating game. He goes by Josh Sway, have a good read.* A big part of the…

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Dating Advice: 3 tips for getting over a break up

Dating advice: 3 tips to get over a break up:

I give a lot of dating advice for not getting stuck on one girl to begin with but for those that are in this painful boat and have gotten this bad part of the…

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PUA Persuasion: Frustratingly Charming

How to manage the conversation (Pick up artist Persuasion: Being Frustratingly
Charming): I'm going to discuss how I tend to keep the
conversation about sex and, mainly, dictate the topic of what's being said. I like
to think of this as being frustratingly…

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Pick up artist Redsky's Method for Escalating to sex and the importance of Eye Contact

Introduction to Eye Contact and Kino Escalation (Pick up artist Redsky’s Method):

First off, this is a very common topic of discussion. A lot of us are having trouble with this and I don't think it is necessary to rely on alcohol and luck all the time.

Most of the time it is just about presenting yourself in a way that is confident and there is no better way to do so than by eye contact.

Eye Contact: I believe I should start this off by stating the necessity for strong eye contact. There is a big importance for this and also…

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What you feel, She feels. (Frame Control)

Frame control: What is a frame? -A frame is a feeling or mood that a person is put in through their own interpretations, collections of stereotypes and messages that they use to understand and respond to given events. Ex: You…

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Limiting yourself with Monogamy

Why investing in a monogamous relationship is a total waste of time: Yes it is. A relationship should come together on it’s own without effort. If you are asking yourself whether she really likes you then you have already invested…

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Why you shouldn't take it slow

Why you should never go slow when dating:

-Some of us already know that women aren't the little angels they try to get us to think they are. Whether you find that true or not, I’ve listened to many of my friends sit there and tell me that they really think women are more faithful than us. However, that is incorrect. Our lady friends are actually…

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Approach Anxiety is dead

Approach Anxiety is dead:

 -Abundance and Significance

“When you are grateful, fear disappears and abundance appears.”
― Anthony Robbins

Although I am not a big Neuro Linguistic Programming fan. Anthony Robbins has said some things that have stuck out in my mind and he definitely has an energy that exudes a large amount of sincerity and significance.

He has two qualities that are very important in the process of improving your game and mastering seduction. These are optimism and a high personal view of his self worth.

Many people can try to become dating coaches and claim that they know all there is to know about getting laid, tongue in cheek and all. They may even make a few dollars at it.

Other people can deceive by being on reality shows selling false truths along with unnecessary routines of a step by step mc-method that fades a few years after being overused.

However 2 things are always certain. They will always help you prevail and deliver you the women you always desired. Those 2 things are abundance and significance.

Nail them into your brain because you are about to be inspired.

Although I may never be on the level of Anthony Robins when it comes to motivational enlightenment. I can tell you that you don't need to be anything special to get a beautiful woman.

All you need to do is believe that you are. Misogynist or not, it lies in your personal view of your self worth.

What PUA is 'about' to me, is this:

PUA is about falling in love with yourself and sharing that love with someone who appreciates you, rather than just looking for love.

Don't make excuses anymore. It's not anyone else's fault but mine! I'm able to get the girl of my dreams! I'm able to get out of this deteriorative slump that I put myself in! I'm able! I'm able! I'm able to do anything!

Listen to yourself. Don't listen to anyone else. If she doesn't appreciate you then 'you' don't need her. Is she even that special? What does she bring to you?

She brings absolutely nothing. What is 30 to 45 mins of intimate build up, some passion and 30 seconds of endorphine injected pleasure really worth?

It's not worth anything. It's definitely not worth it with someone who doesn't want you all that much to begin with.

So move on to the next. Don't be afraid to talk to her. Who cares, even if you don't hit it off then there are still a billion others out there waiting to be explored. Atleast I tried my best.

I even went in for the kiss. She smiled but no luck, maybe next time. At least I know what I can get away with.

You think she's beautiful?

Yes she is very beautiful but what?

What does she do for you?

Nothing! She does nothing. She complains and stresses you out about nothing. She gets jealous for things that she is doing herself. She takes advantage of you verbally, financially and shamelessly.

The truth is that 'you' bring more to the table than she does.

What do I bring?

Actually, I bring a lot. I bring security, safety and guidance. I provide, I protect, I lead.

I am somebody. I am more than she will ever be. I have a carreer. I have ambition.

The only ambition she'll ever have is geared towards a Louis Vuitton accessory. So why am I even thinking about rejection. I should be rejecting her.

Why was I afraid of her rejecting me, again?

Now I know myself.

Now I found myself.

Now I am significant.

And now I'm making out with a beautiful girl.

Game on!

Funny Comic: The coveted gamer girl

The Coveted Gamer girl: I remember when I was a younger lad, I would sometimes come across a girl that I found attractive. Then that same girl would put me to shame in video games that I once thought I…
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7 Deadly “Texting” Mistakes (part 2)

7 Deadly "Texting" Mistakes (part 2)

The other day we discussed four mistakes men make when texting women that totally scare off or repel a girl who was previosly interested..

Let’s face it… texting women can be downright confusing…

(What to write, what did her last text mean, how long should I wait to text her again, Is she ignoring my texts?)

The worst part is when the girl stops responding or just seems to dissapear.. you never quite know why…

Chances are it can be rooted down to one of these mistakes…

Even though all of these mistakes are subtle… they have a powerful ability to kill attraction quickly.

So let’s get into it.

Mistake #5: Going for the Meetup without Sparking Emotion

Here is another hard, cold fact. If you ask a woman to hang out, without first sparking an emotion.. she will almost always turn you down.

Why?

Because all of the positive emotions she felt when she was with you has dwindled.

And the thought of getting dressed up, and going to meet a guy she barely knows (and the potential you’ll turn out to be a creep or just akward) is not worth the effort.

Logically she can easily talk herself out of it.

Which is why you MUST engage her on an emotional level first.

It is MUCH easier to get a “yes” out of a woman once you’ve sparked a positive emotion.

The two best ways to do this are with flirting or humor.

Here’s an important concept: She is NOT going to remember all your good qualities. So it’s your JOB to remind her.

Mistake #6: Becoming too “Predictable”

Lets say that you’ve now succeeded in getting up a date with a girl. You may think you’re home free when it comes to texting, but there’s still some things you need to keep in mind to ensure you CONTINUE to see your girls.

First, you never want to fall into predictable patterns. Lots of guys use the same jokes, same questions, and same  texts over and over. While it may be easier to fall into “complacency” with a woman you’re dating, don’t do it!

Instead, break things up with something spicy every once in a while. Tell her you have a “surprise” to show her later.  Tell her something reminded you of her, but don’t tell her what it is right away. Ask her to send you a funny picture of something (or send her a funny picture of something).

Keep her guessing what your text will be and you’ll keep her interested in you. Moreover, keeping the “spark” of a  relationship alive is very important when it comes to creating a great sex life.

As long as you don’t become ultra predictable, you should have your girl texting YOU asking YOU when you’re available to hang out.

Mistake #7: Thinking She’s Different

I have stressed over and over again “Never tell a girl how you feel about her over text”…

Yet, day after day I get emails from students telling me a story about how they confessed their feelings to a girl over text…

And every time- they scare the girl away.

In your mind, you’re going to try to convince yourself that “She is different.”

Or that “It won’t work on her”

But the minute you tell yourself ‘she’s different’ you are on the road to losing her…

Guys continually do things like:

- Texting her too much

- Paying her gushing compliments over text

- Not asking her to hang out because you’re scared…

And time and time again they’ll face the same consequences as all the other guys have…

She’s not different. And if anytime you start thinking she is pull out this article and re-read it.

Ok…

So now that you know the big mistakes you need to avoid its time formulate a solid game plan.

This item below is what I strongly suggest:

 

Some of the things you’ll learn:

- How to captilize on attraction before it fades

- The single biggest ingredient for capturing her attention

- 3 specific types of texts you need to send (in order) to turn her on and get her anxious to meet up.

So that's all I got for today and Best of luck.

Motivation: Email I received with Inspiring video

Motivation:

I have been seeing a lot of questions about guys telling me that they feel like they will never find a girlfriend and that they feel like they are always going to be alone. SO of course, I respond…

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Video: Nerds getting girls (Quite funny)

Nerds getting girls:

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Art of Conversation

-Art of Conversation:

I-Intro(opener): Party/Bar

Ask her name. Before she tells you, say, "it doesnt matter what your name is. I'm giving you a nickname."

Ask her if she does yoga. Say she has good posture like a pineapple under the sea. Or anything backhanded will do. She will laugh. Then say, "You're cute but dont let that go to your head."

Now tell her whenever she laughs, "She just won points with you for laughing." Go for a high five switch to hug combo. If she goes for it, tell her, "hands off the merchandise."

II-Questions: Ask positive, open ended questions.

Ex: "What were you doing before you came here?"

"Did you see the fight outside?"

"What are dominant and positive qualities that you like in a guy?"-In this one if she says things like she wants someone exciting, adventurous, etc. then she is most likely turned on.

If she says, boring stuff like: Honest, respectful, gentleman then she is not turned on.

III-Statements: Instead asking questions, now you can make statements which a pretty much fillers to keep the conversation going.

Ex: Me: "Last week I was out with a friend from high school. I hadn't seen him in years. We partied like crazy. I had a lot of fun."

IV-Making a connection:

A way to do this is after joking around with her, go back to a serious topic like what she is studying.

Ex:

Me: you're studying to be a Doctor right? 
Her: yes
Me: you know really, I find that interesting.

V-Escalation:

After talking to her for 20 mins or so I suggest trying to get her comfortable with you touching her.

1: I usually will get them to sit with me somewhere somewhat private and talk with them. I may put my hands out and tell them to grab my hands.

2: I might ask her how my hands feel feel, Say something like "are the too 'rough' for you?" "Rough" is a good trigger word for her, will definitely get her mind wandering in good areas.
If they are doing this then they are probably going to let me kiss them.

3: I like to move my head really close to their's slowly and make sure to keep eye contact. Move in and out and keep eye contact no matter what.

4 : I'll close my eyes slightly like I'm squinting and come in again. When she looks like she is coming in then I'll back away slightly and then kiss her right after she comes in.

If you do this like I said then she will let you kiss her but make sure it is when she slightly comes forward as you are moving away.

+Now that you got the kiss you can pretty much get the number and move on to getting a 1 on 1 date later on .

If you are feeling really good then you could consider isolating her to a more private venue. Play a game of pool and tell her after 1 or 2 games let's get out of here.

If she says ok then grab her hand and walk out to get a taxi and you are free to go to your place.

*Mentality: Pretend like you are at a party you threw and that everyone here is your guest.*

So that's a brief breakdown of a conversation.

Best of luck.

7 Deadly “Texting” Mistakes

7 Deadly “Texting” Mistakes (and how to avoid them)

There was a lot to write about this so I'm going to break it into 2 articles. This one will be Part: 1 and include the first 4 mistakes.

So getting to it, one of the most frustrating things is when you get a woman’s number (and she seems to be totally into you)

… But then after a few texts she seems to lose interest, fizzle out, or go cold.

The natural reaction is to blame the woman. “She’s a flake…”

But if you do that, you could be missing a giant crink in YOUR GAME that is easier to fix than you think.

In fact, if you’re like most guys then you’re probably just making one (or a few) of these common ‘texting’ mistakes that will kill your chances with a girl.

The 7 Deadly Texting Mistakes

Mistake #1: Confusing Responses for Attraction

Before you’ve had your first date with a girl, she won’t  feel much of a connection to you. As unfortunate as it may be, you’re probably not the only guy texting her.

See, a common mistake most guys make when they’re texting a girl is that they mistake responses for attraction. Often when a guy is getting a response from a girl, he believes that he’s getting closer to getting her on a date or to seducing her.

The exact opposite is true!

The more texts you send before meeting up with girl means the less of a chance you have of actually meeting up with her! That’s right: even if a girl is RESPONDING to your texts, you’re not getting yourself ANY closer to actually getting her out on a date.

Instead, say more with less. Whenever you’re considering what to text a girl, see if you can say it simpler, with less text. Most guys send pointless texts to women like, “How’s your day?” or “Enjoying the warm weather?” These texts DO NOT bring you ANY closer to a woman! They just beg for a response (which doesn’t mean anything).

To make sure you NEVER again waste texts on pointless chatter, ask yourself this golden question:

How is this text bringing this girl and I closer to a date?

If it's not then erase the text. It’s not going to help you.

Mistake #2: Not Conveying “Fun”

Here is the simple truth. When a woman gives you her number she is NOT signing a social contract to go out with you…

And until it seems FUN for her… she’s probably not going to bother meeting up with you.

So when you send boring texts that don’t display any personality or don’t elicit any emotions in her… in her mind you’re not worth the trouble of meeting up with.

Here are some signs you’re NOT being fun.

- Am I being stiff and formal “Hi. It was nice meeting you Friday”…. (too stiff. too formal)

- Am I putting pressure on her to keep the convo going?

- Am I badering her with question?

Remember, every text you send should make you seem like the FUN OPTION. The escape from her boring day.

Mistake #3: Not Having a Texting Style

If you’re texting an attractive woman chances are you are NOT the only guy she is getting a text from today, like I said before.

Hate to break it to you.

But between other guys pursuing her, ex boyfriends,  co-workers, classmates, and so on… she’s got a lot of guys vying for her attention.

So if you want to stand out- your texts need to display your unique style and personality.

She should be able to know its a text from you just by reading it (even if the name was blocked)

What words, phrases, punctuation, or emoticons are uniquely yours?

Mistake #4 Having Long Text Conversations

Text conversations are NOT the same as actual conversations.

Texting should be the “Super cool” cliff notes of normal conversations. Meaning leave out the formalities.

The longer the conversation the more chances to mess things up or run into awkward confusion.

Everytime you pick up the phone… jump right into the good stuff. Start with anecdote. Start with a teasing nickname. Find a way to quickly spark an emotion and get her paying full attention to you.

Don't worry! I’ll be back soon with three more of the common texting mistakes men make.

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