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Why you shouldn't take it slow

Why you shouldn't take it slow:

-Women aren't as loyal as you think.

Believe it or not, I've heard many guys tell me that they honestly believe women are more loyal than guys. This is extremely false.

Women are actually more shallow than we are. They are also liars. The majority of women lie in order to maintain peace, get what they want and sometimes just because they are use to it.

We lie too. Anyone who calls anyone a liar is an utter hypocrite but I'll save that for another time.

-Women are naturally selfish.

Our nature is to survive. Our instinct is to survive. How do we survive? We acquire resources that allow us to do so. So do women. We both do.

Yet, women do it differently than us. We like to work for it. Women do it(most of the time) by latching onto something that makes their life easier(pays their bills, pays for their drinks).

Yes, they expect us to take care of them right from the start. At the same time they have many other guys who call them, text them daily. They have guys that are trying to get with them on Facebook, twitter, etc.

It may sound mean but it's true and someone had to say it.

-A girl might be easier for you than she was for another guy.

This is another point that I need to make. You hear all these gurus talking about finding a quality girl, the girl of your dreams, etc.

You need to know this. Many guys brag about how they are with a 'good woman'.

Go ahead and live your little fantasy guys. You're the first one who I'm going to read about in the newspaper. "Man shoots wife when walking in on her with another man."

You have smart girls and girls who aren't as smart. Let's say you have 2 girls who are attractive and look the same but one is smarter than the other. The smart one will have the same amount of intimate encounters as the not as smart one. The only difference is that our smart girl is better at hiding it and usually already has someone paying their bills.

So who is better quality out of the two?

They look the same, but one is probably easier because she doesn't know what she's worth. That's what it comes down too. Although you'd have a chance with the smart one if you fit her type(which is left up to chance).

*So those are some valid points on why you shouldn't take it slow, ever.*

Approach Anxiety is dead

Approach Anxiety is dead:

 -Abundance and Significance

“When you are grateful, fear disappears and abundance appears.”
― Anthony Robbins

Although I am not a big Neuro Linguistic Programming fan. Anthony Robbins has said some things that have stuck out in my mind and he definitely has an energy that exudes a large amount of sincerity and significance.

He has two qualities that are very important in the process of improving your game and mastering seduction. These are optimism and a high personal view of his self worth.

Many people can try to become dating coaches and claim that they know all there is to know about getting laid, tongue in cheek and all. They may even make a few dollars at it.

Other people can deceive by being on reality shows selling false truths along with unnecessary routines of a step by step mc-method that fades a few years after being overused.

However 2 things are always certain. They will always help you prevail and deliver you the women you always desired. Those 2 things are abundance and significance.

Nail them into your brain because you are about to be inspired.

Although I may never be on the level of Anthony Robins when it comes to motivational enlightenment. I can tell you that you don't need to be anything special to get a beautiful woman.

All you need to do is believe that you are. Misogynist or not, it lies in your personal view of your self worth.

What PUA is 'about' to me, is this:

PUA is about falling in love with yourself and sharing that love with someone who appreciates you, rather than just looking for love.

Don't make excuses anymore. It's not anyone else's fault but mine! I'm able to get the girl of my dreams! I'm able to get out of this deteriorative slump that I put myself in! I'm able! I'm able! I'm able to do anything!

Listen to yourself. Don't listen to anyone else. If she doesn't appreciate you then 'you' don't need her. Is she even that special? What does she bring to you?

She brings absolutely nothing. What is 30 to 45 mins of intimate build up, some passion and 30 seconds of endorphine injected pleasure really worth?

It's not worth anything. It's definitely not worth it with someone who doesn't want you all that much to begin with.

So move on to the next. Don't be afraid to talk to her. Who cares, even if you don't hit it off then there are still a billion others out there waiting to be explored. Atleast I tried my best.

I even went in for the kiss. She smiled but no luck, maybe next time. At least I know what I can get away with.

You think she's beautiful?

Yes she is very beautiful but what?

What does she do for you?

Nothing! She does nothing. She complains and stresses you out about nothing. She gets jealous for things that she is doing herself. She takes advantage of you verbally, financially and shamelessly.

The truth is that 'you' bring more to the table than she does.

What do I bring?

Actually, I bring a lot. I bring security, safety and guidance. I provide, I protect, I lead.

I am somebody. I am more than she will ever be. I have a carreer. I have ambition.

The only ambition she'll ever have is geared towards a Louis Vuitton accessory. So why am I even thinking about rejection. I should be rejecting her.

Why was I afraid of her rejecting me, again?

Now I know myself.

Now I found myself.

Now I am significant.

And now I'm making out with a beautiful girl.

Game on!

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7 Deadly “Texting” Mistakes (part 2)

7 Deadly "Texting" Mistakes (part 2)

The other day we discussed four mistakes men make when texting women that totally scare off or repel a girl who was previosly interested..

Let’s face it… texting women can be downright confusing…

(What to write, what did her last text mean, how long should I wait to text her again, Is she ignoring my texts?)

The worst part is when the girl stops responding or just seems to dissapear.. you never quite know why…

Chances are it can be rooted down to one of these mistakes…

Even though all of these mistakes are subtle… they have a powerful ability to kill attraction quickly.

So let’s get into it.

Mistake #5: Going for the Meetup without Sparking Emotion

Here is another hard, cold fact. If you ask a woman to hang out, without first sparking an emotion.. she will almost always turn you down.

Why?

Because all of the positive emotions she felt when she was with you has dwindled.

And the thought of getting dressed up, and going to meet a guy she barely knows (and the potential you’ll turn out to be a creep or just akward) is not worth the effort.

Logically she can easily talk herself out of it.

Which is why you MUST engage her on an emotional level first.

It is MUCH easier to get a “yes” out of a woman once you’ve sparked a positive emotion.

The two best ways to do this are with flirting or humor.

Here’s an important concept: She is NOT going to remember all your good qualities. So it’s your JOB to remind her.

Mistake #6: Becoming too “Predictable”

Lets say that you’ve now succeeded in getting up a date with a girl. You may think you’re home free when it comes to texting, but there’s still some things you need to keep in mind to ensure you CONTINUE to see your girls.

First, you never want to fall into predictable patterns. Lots of guys use the same jokes, same questions, and same  texts over and over. While it may be easier to fall into “complacency” with a woman you’re dating, don’t do it!

Instead, break things up with something spicy every once in a while. Tell her you have a “surprise” to show her later.  Tell her something reminded you of her, but don’t tell her what it is right away. Ask her to send you a funny picture of something (or send her a funny picture of something).

Keep her guessing what your text will be and you’ll keep her interested in you. Moreover, keeping the “spark” of a  relationship alive is very important when it comes to creating a great sex life.

As long as you don’t become ultra predictable, you should have your girl texting YOU asking YOU when you’re available to hang out.

Mistake #7: Thinking She’s Different

I have stressed over and over again “Never tell a girl how you feel about her over text”…

Yet, day after day I get emails from students telling me a story about how they confessed their feelings to a girl over text…

And every time- they scare the girl away.

In your mind, you’re going to try to convince yourself that “She is different.”

Or that “It won’t work on her”

But the minute you tell yourself ‘she’s different’ you are on the road to losing her…

Guys continually do things like:

- Texting her too much

- Paying her gushing compliments over text

- Not asking her to hang out because you’re scared…

And time and time again they’ll face the same consequences as all the other guys have…

She’s not different. And if anytime you start thinking she is pull out this article and re-read it.

Ok…

So now that you know the big mistakes you need to avoid its time formulate a solid game plan.

This item below is what I strongly suggest:

 

Some of the things you’ll learn:

- How to captilize on attraction before it fades

- The single biggest ingredient for capturing her attention

- 3 specific types of texts you need to send (in order) to turn her on and get her anxious to meet up.

So that's all I got for today and Best of luck.

Motivation: Email I received with Inspiring video

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