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Friday, March 29, 2013

7 Deadly “Texting” Mistakes (part 2)

7 Deadly "Texting" Mistakes (part 2)

The other day we discussed four mistakes men make when texting women that totally scare off or repel a girl who was previosly interested..

Let’s face it… texting women can be downright confusing…

(What to write, what did her last text mean, how long should I wait to text her again, Is she ignoring my texts?)

The worst part is when the girl stops responding or just seems to dissapear.. you never quite know why…

Chances are it can be rooted down to one of these mistakes…

Even though all of these mistakes are subtle… they have a powerful ability to kill attraction quickly.

So let’s get into it.

Mistake #5: Going for the Meetup without Sparking Emotion

Here is another hard, cold fact. If you ask a woman to hang out, without first sparking an emotion.. she will almost always turn you down.

Why?

Because all of the positive emotions she felt when she was with you has dwindled.

And the thought of getting dressed up, and going to meet a guy she barely knows (and the potential you’ll turn out to be a creep or just akward) is not worth the effort.

Logically she can easily talk herself out of it.

Which is why you MUST engage her on an emotional level first.

It is MUCH easier to get a “yes” out of a woman once you’ve sparked a positive emotion.

The two best ways to do this are with flirting or humor.

Here’s an important concept: She is NOT going to remember all your good qualities. So it’s your JOB to remind her.

Mistake #6: Becoming too “Predictable”

Lets say that you’ve now succeeded in getting up a date with a girl. You may think you’re home free when it comes to texting, but there’s still some things you need to keep in mind to ensure you CONTINUE to see your girls.

First, you never want to fall into predictable patterns. Lots of guys use the same jokes, same questions, and same  texts over and over. While it may be easier to fall into “complacency” with a woman you’re dating, don’t do it!

Instead, break things up with something spicy every once in a while. Tell her you have a “surprise” to show her later.  Tell her something reminded you of her, but don’t tell her what it is right away. Ask her to send you a funny picture of something (or send her a funny picture of something).

Keep her guessing what your text will be and you’ll keep her interested in you. Moreover, keeping the “spark” of a  relationship alive is very important when it comes to creating a great sex life.

As long as you don’t become ultra predictable, you should have your girl texting YOU asking YOU when you’re available to hang out.

Mistake #7: Thinking She’s Different

I have stressed over and over again “Never tell a girl how you feel about her over text”…

Yet, day after day I get emails from students telling me a story about how they confessed their feelings to a girl over text…

And every time- they scare the girl away.

In your mind, you’re going to try to convince yourself that “She is different.”

Or that “It won’t work on her”

But the minute you tell yourself ‘she’s different’ you are on the road to losing her…

Guys continually do things like:

- Texting her too much

- Paying her gushing compliments over text

- Not asking her to hang out because you’re scared…

And time and time again they’ll face the same consequences as all the other guys have…

She’s not different. And if anytime you start thinking she is pull out this article and re-read it.

Ok…

So now that you know the big mistakes you need to avoid its time formulate a solid game plan.

This item below is what I strongly suggest:

 

Some of the things you’ll learn:

- How to captilize on attraction before it fades

- The single biggest ingredient for capturing her attention

- 3 specific types of texts you need to send (in order) to turn her on and get her anxious to meet up.

So that's all I got for today and Best of luck.

Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Motivation: Email I received with Inspiring video



Motivation:

I have been seeing a lot of questions about guys telling me that they feel like they will never find a girlfriend and that they feel like they are always going to be alone. SO of course, I respond

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Saturday, March 23, 2013

Video: Nerds getting girls (Quite funny)


Nerds getting girls:

I thought I'd show my personal thoughts on how one should convey himself to women. There are numerous ways to convey oneself. You don't have to...

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Thursday, March 21, 2013

Art of Conversation



-Art of Conversation:

I-Intro(opener): Party/Bar

Ask her name. Before she tells you, say, "it doesnt matter what your name is. I'm giving you a nickname."

Ask her if she does yoga. Say she has good posture like a pineapple under the sea. Or anything backhanded will do. She will laugh. Then say, "You're cute but dont let that go to your head."

Now tell her whenever she laughs, "She just won points with you for laughing." Go for a high five switch to hug combo. If she goes for it, tell her, "hands off the merchandise."

II-Questions: Ask positive, open ended questions.

Ex: "What were you doing before you came here?"

"Did you see the fight outside?"

"What are dominant and positive qualities that you like in a guy?"-In this one if she says things like she wants someone exciting, adventurous, etc. then she is most likely turned on.

If she says, boring stuff like: Honest, respectful, gentleman then she is not turned on.

III-Statements: Instead asking questions, now you can make statements which a pretty much fillers to keep the conversation going.

Ex: Me: "Last week I was out with a friend from high school. I hadn't seen him in years. We partied like crazy. I had a lot of fun."

IV-Making a connection:

A way to do this is after joking around with her, go back to a serious topic like what she is studying.

Ex:

Me: you're studying to be a Doctor right? 
Her: yes
Me: you know really, I find that interesting.

V-Escalation:

After talking to her for 20 mins or so I suggest trying to get her comfortable with you touching her.

1: I usually will get them to sit with me somewhere somewhat private and talk with them. I may put my hands out and tell them to grab my hands.

2: I might ask her how my hands feel feel, Say something like "are the too 'rough' for you?" "Rough" is a good trigger word for her, will definitely get her mind wandering in good areas.
If they are doing this then they are probably going to let me kiss them.

3: I like to move my head really close to their's slowly and make sure to keep eye contact. Move in and out and keep eye contact no matter what.

4 : I'll close my eyes slightly like I'm squinting and come in again. When she looks like she is coming in then I'll back away slightly and then kiss her right after she comes in.

If you do this like I said then she will let you kiss her but make sure it is when she slightly comes forward as you are moving away.

+Now that you got the kiss you can pretty much get the number and move on to getting a 1 on 1 date later on .

If you are feeling really good then you could consider isolating her to a more private venue. Play a game of pool and tell her after 1 or 2 games let's get out of here.

If she says ok then grab her hand and walk out to get a taxi and you are free to go to your place.

*Mentality: Pretend like you are at a party you threw and that everyone here is your guest.*

So that's a brief breakdown of a conversation.

Best of luck.

Tuesday, March 19, 2013

7 Deadly “Texting” Mistakes

7 Deadly “Texting” Mistakes (and how to avoid them)

There was a lot to write about this so I'm going to break it into 2 articles. This one will be Part: 1 and include the first 4 mistakes.

So getting to it, one of the most frustrating things is when you get a woman’s number (and she seems to be totally into you)

… But then after a few texts she seems to lose interest, fizzle out, or go cold.

The natural reaction is to blame the woman. “She’s a flake…”

But if you do that, you could be missing a giant crink in YOUR GAME that is easier to fix than you think.

In fact, if you’re like most guys then you’re probably just making one (or a few) of these common ‘texting’ mistakes that will kill your chances with a girl.

The 7 Deadly Texting Mistakes

Mistake #1: Confusing Responses for Attraction

Before you’ve had your first date with a girl, she won’t  feel much of a connection to you. As unfortunate as it may be, you’re probably not the only guy texting her.

See, a common mistake most guys make when they’re texting a girl is that they mistake responses for attraction. Often when a guy is getting a response from a girl, he believes that he’s getting closer to getting her on a date or to seducing her.

The exact opposite is true!

The more texts you send before meeting up with girl means the less of a chance you have of actually meeting up with her! That’s right: even if a girl is RESPONDING to your texts, you’re not getting yourself ANY closer to actually getting her out on a date.

Instead, say more with less. Whenever you’re considering what to text a girl, see if you can say it simpler, with less text. Most guys send pointless texts to women like, “How’s your day?” or “Enjoying the warm weather?” These texts DO NOT bring you ANY closer to a woman! They just beg for a response (which doesn’t mean anything).

To make sure you NEVER again waste texts on pointless chatter, ask yourself this golden question:

How is this text bringing this girl and I closer to a date?

If it's not then erase the text. It’s not going to help you.

Mistake #2: Not Conveying “Fun”

Here is the simple truth. When a woman gives you her number she is NOT signing a social contract to go out with you…

And until it seems FUN for her… she’s probably not going to bother meeting up with you.

So when you send boring texts that don’t display any personality or don’t elicit any emotions in her… in her mind you’re not worth the trouble of meeting up with.

Here are some signs you’re NOT being fun.

- Am I being stiff and formal “Hi. It was nice meeting you Friday”…. (too stiff. too formal)

- Am I putting pressure on her to keep the convo going?

- Am I badering her with question?

Remember, every text you send should make you seem like the FUN OPTION. The escape from her boring day.

Mistake #3: Not Having a Texting Style

If you’re texting an attractive woman chances are you are NOT the only guy she is getting a text from today, like I said before.

Hate to break it to you.

But between other guys pursuing her, ex boyfriends,  co-workers, classmates, and so on… she’s got a lot of guys vying for her attention.

So if you want to stand out- your texts need to display your unique style and personality.

She should be able to know its a text from you just by reading it (even if the name was blocked)

What words, phrases, punctuation, or emoticons are uniquely yours?

Mistake #4 Having Long Text Conversations

Text conversations are NOT the same as actual conversations.

Texting should be the “Super cool” cliff notes of normal conversations. Meaning leave out the formalities.

The longer the conversation the more chances to mess things up or run into awkward confusion.

Everytime you pick up the phone… jump right into the good stuff. Start with anecdote. Start with a teasing nickname. Find a way to quickly spark an emotion and get her paying full attention to you.

Don't worry! I’ll be back soon with three more of the common texting mistakes men make.

In the meantime, check out this product that will help you attract and create interest from hot girls with just 3 simple texts:




Sunday, March 17, 2013

Intro to Cocky Funny


Intro to Cocky Funny:

Cocky/Funny: An attitude closely related to Push/Pull that combines borderline cocky/confident behavior with humor.

Why use the Cocky/ Funny method?

-This method allows you to attract women of higher quality. You can attract women who are independent and successful; lawyers, doctors, etc.

-It helps you act more playful, independent and confident.
-Instead of courting you are having fun and creating a more meaningful interaction between you and the girl.

-Helps you to better understand the natural role of the male.

How to be Cocky/ Funny?

The Idea is to start out by saying something sweet or nice.(Ex: "Wow, you look very nice."-Pull-) Then add a few more pulls. After you've done that you then say something that disqualifies them.(Ex: "It won't work now because you don't like Boxing."-Push-)

-At a Club/Bar:

When I use this method I may be in a club and see a girl I find attractive walking by. I will simply walk in front of her and tell her, "Excuse me, we haven't been introduced. I'm Redsky." She then may reply with, "Nice to meet you, I'm so and so."

After this I tell her that I couldn't just let her walk by without talking to her.

She may say something like, what do you mean? or thank you.

I'll then tell her, "look at you, you look very nice. You look like you just got out of a photoshoot. I have to get your number."

She most likely will laugh and ask me if I'm from around here.

If she does then I'll reply, "That doesn't matter, what matters is me getting to know the beautiful girl standing in front me."(Make sure to maintain eye contact with a slight smile on your face.)

If she doesn't say "Ok" immediately and puts up a fight then she may do a couple of things. She will probably turn away and join her friends(If she isn't at all into you) or she will tell you, "No, I have a boyfriend, etc." And resume the conversation with a follow up question about you.

For example: She asks you what you are doing in the city, etc. I'd reply with something like, "How bout you take a guess."(This makes the conversation more playful or fun, which in return makes you more interesting.)

If she hasn't walked away before then she will most likely guess and answer you. It doesn't matter what she says, you tell her, "You're close."

Now, take a step closer while closing the gap so that you are inches apart. Make sure you are keeping eye contact with a slight smile.

I then lower my voice and tell her, "You make me feel shy, like a boy with a crush. You're making my hands freeze and shake. feel them."(I grab her hand)

She may say something like, "They aren't freezing."

If she says something like this then it's a perfect time to drop her hand and say, "You think I'm lying, don't you. I just spilled my heart and you tell me I'm lying. It won't work now. The wedding is off. I'm taking the T.V. you can keep the gold fish."

Now wait and gauge her reaction. Does she look entertained, smiling and sticking around? If yes, then you can go back up to her with a smile and say, "Ok party's over, what's your number?" You could even escalate more and say, "Ok fun's over, let's get a drink."

*Last chance*

If she starts to leave then get in front of her. I've had success stopping them and saying something like, "Don't leave yet, you'll break my heart. I swear if you leave me like this then I'll go home and cry. (Making a puppy dog face.)

She may laugh. If she does then last opportunity, I will finish it off with, "SO, what's your number?" (Handing her my phone so it's harder to object.)

-While walking around during the day:

Me: "Excuse me."

Her: "yes?"

Me: "We haven't been introduced, I'm Redsky."

Her: "Hi Redsky."

Me: "Do you go to church? Because I don't."(evil smile)

Her: (smiles)

Me: "you're cute, let's hang out sometime."

Her: "ok."

Me: "What's your number?" (As I hand her my phone.)

*Like all methods, expect to be rejected and get wrong numbers. Not every girl is going to be interested. However mastering this will definitely increase your rate of success with women in general.*

This method is not for everyone. I believe it is more suited for the guys who don't like to give up easily.

So there's my take on the aspects of cocky/funny and how to use it. Hope I got the message acrossed.

Best of luck.

Thursday, March 14, 2013

Funny Comic: Trying too Hard


Funny Comic: Trying too Hard

 SO the other day I saw a comic and it gave me some inspiration. I was thinking about how a lot of guys think that they have to sweet talk the girls to get anywhere


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Wednesday, March 13, 2013

Funny Comic: The Hopeless Romantic




Funny Comic about dating: Hopeless Romantic

I spotted this Comic on the net. Thought I’d bring it here. I couldn’t help but cackle since I remembered when I was not that experienced and didn’t really know how to get laid. I found…

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Sunday, March 10, 2013

4 rules for Relationships


4 Rules for Relationships: 

For awhile 'here', I've been talking about getting the girl's number and how to get her into bed. However I didn't really examine much after that. Well I did now! I'm going to give you 4 Rules for keeping "her" interested and determining whether the girl you are dating is worth being in a relationship with or not.

1- Neediness:

This pretty much goes under the 'not being afraid to lose her' concept. Girls want a guy that isn't battling with himself internally about whether his new found girl is losing interest for him or not.

I had a friend who would constantly have this issue. He didn't have much trouble getting the girls he liked, initially. Yet he would let his thoughts manifest; making him feel insecure. Then he'd end up scaring the girls away. This is because girls can spot insecurity a mile away and it isn't attractive.

So just be ready to accept if a girl wants to leave you. Besides, you don't want to be with someone who you have to convince to be with you anyway. Also, being strong enough to move on is an attractive quality.

2- Don't ever let 'her' disrespect you:

This is a big one. For me, if I'm going to allow a girl I'm seeing to be in a relationship with me, they must have the 'utmost respect' for me. This doesn't mean I dump the girl the first moment that she snaps at me. What I do, is simply 'Check' them. Yea, I make it a Chess game.

Example 1:

Let's say I pick my new girl up from work and she decides to snap at me because she had a bad day. I have no problem slightly raising my voice and telling her that she can get out of the car and walk home if she wants to talk to me like that. Of course, I am not going to make her walk but I will make her believe that I will.

This draws a line and if you do things like this enough then you will notice that she will behave much better around you.

-Negative responses-

She decides to walk:

If she decides to walk then I won't follow her either. In my personal opinion, if I'm important enough to her then she will change her behavior.

She flips out:

If you get a feisty one then I suggest bailing. Sometimes you don't know for awhile, then all of a sudden she turns out to be bipolar and explodes out of nowhere.

I've had friends who've had violent girls before and like I said, "Bail!" These are the kinds of girls who will shamelessly throw heavy objects at you. You don't need this, no one does.

So now you see! Not allowing your new girl to disrespect you is(kind of a test) and boundary setter for your newly forming relationship.

*This also includes 'her' telling you that she thinks another guy is cute, flirting with another guy, thinking that you always have to pay for her when you go out, etc.(Don't let them get away with any of these!)

Remember "Check! Check! Check!" Make sure she knows your boundaries and make them "Clear". Otherwise she will walk all over you, chew you up, get bored and discard you. We as human beings need to be put in "Check" in order to learn other people's limits. It also gives you flare, which excites them.

"Give them an inch and they'll expect a mile."*

3- Remembering your Role:

When I say this, I'm talking about our job in the Relationship.

Our job is to provide 'Safety, Security and Comfort'. This means that you are the one protecting her from creepers in her apartment building or whenever she could possibly be exposed to one.(Safety)

It means that you are the one that she cuddles and helps her sleep well when she is lying next to you in her's/your bed, one night.(Security)

 It also means that you are the one she will think of when she has a problem with someone at work, shopping, etc.(Comfort)

This doesn't mean you have to call her everyday to see how she is doing, it doesn't mean telling her you love her(Don't tell her 'you love her' unless she tells you first), nor does it mean that you should do whatever she asks you to do.

In fact, they really don't need much attention at all. Be with her but have your own priorities on your mind. Try it and see. As long as we are just there, then that is all a girl needs.

A girl might complain about you not telling her you love her enough, not texting her enough or not listening to her when she is trying to tell you something she thinks is important. However, as long as she knows that you are there for her when she needs you(Safety, Security, Comfort) then she won't let, 'you getting distracted by a Boxing match on T.V.' ruin the relationship.

-For me, If something like 'getting distracted by a Boxing match' is the cause of a girl throwing away her relationship with you. Then she was too high maintenance to begin with. Watch her call back the following week to tell you that she misses you, anyway.

So I suggest remembering that your job is simply too 'provide safety, security and comfort'. You don't need to stress anything else. The truth is that if you focus on anything else, like giving her more attention, etc. Then it will probably do more harm than good and make you look weak or needy.

Women complain because they like to complain. It's how they cope. Plus, you don't have to change everything they complain about. The truth is, you don't have to change anything and shouldn't.

4- Keep the Sex 'good':

This is kind of a no-brainer. I think it's important to keep the sex ever-so-creative. Never stop experimenting and exploring. Do whatever she likes, as long as it isn't conflicting with your own taste. Make sure you make her feel good. Whether you got a carrot or a cucumber. Make it a fun activity, on both sides.

-Someone once told me about how they had a favorite activity that always gave their girlfriend an intense amount of pleasure. He told me that the sex got SO much better when they started talking about what they wanted to try. So they tried it.

*I won't go into detail but it involved a vibrator to stimulate her, combined with the guy inserting his equipment from a backward angle, somewhere where the sun doesn't shine.*

To conclude, that pretty much gets my message acrossed. My 4 rules for relationships, for those of you interested in building a relationship.

Thanks for reading and "Game on!"

Saturday, March 2, 2013

How to make out with a girl in 40 seconds or less – for real


                                                    

If you've ever seen a guy in a bar walk up to a girl he didn't know and make out with her almost immediately, it can be a completely mind-blowing experience. It may seem like it's magical or out of reach - a special ability or super-power that someone is born with.

But it's not. And it can be broken down into a few simple steps you can follow in order to make the same thing happen for you. In this article, I'm going to break down those steps.


The first step is to realize that about 90% of the difference between someone who's really good with women and someone who's not so good or mediocre with women, is the ability to spot a woman who's ready to make out.

I know it sounds kind of crazy at first, but it's true. If you walk into a bar and go up to any woman without knowing what signs to look for, your odds of success go WAY down.

You must know how to spot that woman who's already in this "make-out ready" state, so you can walk up and be "that guy."

Don't buy into the myth that women don't want this to happen.

Women are as sexual (if not more sexual) than guys are. Most of the time, this "turbo" make-out session never happens, because so many guys are afraid to go for it. And when this doesn't happen, the girls end up going home alone or worse.. staying being kind of mean to a lot of guys in the bar/being resentful and angry because no one's approaching them.

By putting this technique into practice, You want to discover how to see the women who you're able to make out with in 40 seconds or less in the first place.

There are a few excellent indicators that will (especially in a bar atmosphere) tell you if a woman is game, or ready for an instant make-out session.

What To Look For

The first indicator is a woman looking down often. When a woman looks down often, she is accessing her emotions.

Let me explain... When we look in different directions, we access different parts of our brain. These are called "Eye Accessing Cues." When a woman is in a bar setting and looking down, she's accessing her emotional brain.

If she makes eye contact with you, looks down then back up again, she's saying: "I have an emotional response to you looking at me and I'm looking down." And if she tilts her head down as well (and doesn't just use her eyes to look down), she's physically dropping herself a little bit lower and showing submission.

This gives you the ability to walk up and be the dominant man.

Now, if she looks at you, smiles and doesn't look away, this could be a lot more difficult situation. Socially, she's meeting you head on, and not showing immediate submission.

Women who you're going to be able to walk up to and make out with in 40 seconds or less should automatically take the submissive role as a woman. That's one quality which shows you'll be able to quickly make out with her.

Another quality is that she's actively looking around to make eye contact. This is crucial. A woman who is engaged with someone specifically and she's not looking away is not going to be as easy to seduce in 40 seconds or less. It's going to take much longer.

Again, you're going to have to play a totally different kind of game when you walk up. You can't just walk up and make out with her.

So instead, if you see a woman who is in a conversation but she's constantly looking around and trying to make eye contact with a lot of people, this is probably a very, very likely opportunity for you and that's a woman you can walk up to and immediately become sexual with.

Other traits are revealed in the way they're moving and how they're dressed. Let's say she's standing with her feet about shoulder-width apart. It's less likely that a woman standing like this is going to be available for you to walk up and dominate. That's because she's standing in a dominant position, with stronger body language and she'll probably be a lot more resistant.

Instead, you want to find a woman who takes up less space. She has her legs closer together and seems to be outside of a group, looking around a little bit.

Another thing is the way she's dressed. If she's dressed in a way that's super flashy and attracting lots of attention, she probably isn't the kind of girl you can walk up to and make out with in 40 seconds.

This kind of women is looking for attention - not for someone to dominate them. What you want is someone who's in between "I don't care" and "Stare at my tits, bitch!" Somewhere between wearing sweatpants with an elastic waistband to the bar and done up really, really beautiful and sexy with a really low-cut shirt. You want to find someone who's in between those two extremes.

A lot of women who are on vacation fall into this realm. They don't want to over dress or under dress, and don't know how the bar atmosphere is going to be. They'll usually come in open-minded, and start looking around trying to make connections. This is an excellent situation for you (and her, of course).

That's what to look for and how you spot her in the first place. If you see some of those, you want to watch her for a second. If you think that she is the kind of person you can walk up to and do this, then proceed.

If not, I'd actually suggest you proceed anyway, just to see what happens.

Next, right after you get that done and you've seen your girl (there are probably three or four of these girls in a bar at any given moment) you're going to walk up and start the scary part.


What To Do


This is where the most powerful kind of frame control comes in. It's very, very important that you understand how to control someone else's frame if you want to come across like you're a pro at this.

By "frame," I basically mean their "reality." You're controlling what they experience. You have to be able to stay in control of that experience in order to really bring her to the level where she feels comfortable making out with you immediately.

I'm going to give you a very quick, punchy, fast way of doing this. I'll explain as quick as possible; that way you can go straight out and try it...

Here's what I would say, word-for-word... Walk up to a girl, when you get up to her and right when she makes eye contact with you, I want you to SLOWLY put your finger up by your lips and say this, "Shhh…"

Then slow your speech pattern down and deepen your vocal tonality. And immediately say, "Wait just one moment."

You can also say, "Stop for one minute." I suggest using a bit of NLP here. Whenever someone hears "stop," "wait," or "don't," they immediately register whatever comes after that.

So if I say, "Don't think of a black cat," what do you do? Immediately, you think of a black cat and whatever version of one you have in your head.

So if I said, "Don't try to make out with me," or "Don't make out with me right now," girls are going to be consciously hearing, "Don't make out with me," but their subconscious minds will be hearing, "Make out with me right now!"

You're attempting to sort of use real-life Inception to get making-out with you to be HER idea. She should be thinking, "I should make out with this guy."

Now, during frame control you'll be using a lot of these subconscious triggers in order to get this to go as fast as possible. Please only use this for good. There are lots of evil ways to use this.

Don't try to seduce women who don't want to be seduced. Again, that's one of the reasons why it's important that you notice a woman who really does want to be seduced by a man.

So to recap so far: you walk up, you put your finger over your lips and you tell her to "Shhh" for a second and then you say a sentence that starts with "don't" or "wait" or "stop."

My typical is "Don't worry... right now." That's all I say. And I slow that speech down – "Don't…worry…....... right now."

Then I go right into the next statement, which is, "You and I are going to have a secret. We're going to secretly kiss and no one will know."

And as I'm saying this, I'm leaning in... and you'll be doing the same when you do it. You're leaning in ever... so... slowly. At the same time, you're looking from her eyes down to her lips and back up to her eyes again.

This is called "Triangulating." Count to three looking at her eyes, then look down to her lips and count to two, look back up and count to three, look down and count to two... etc. Do that about three or four times as you're talking.

This can be a lot to remember, so you may want to practice it a little bit. I wouldn't expect you're going to get it perfect the first time.

So again, you say, "We're going to have a secret. We're going to kiss and no one is going to know." From here on out, you're really just filling up space with words as you're leaning in so you're still controlling the interaction.

So you're going to very, very slowly, take your right or left hand – whichever one is more accessible – and reach around her back. You won't pull her in toward you or anything yet, just touch her very lightly.


Signs That It's Working


Is she looking at your lips? If she's looking at your lips, you have a green light to go forward. If she's looking at your eyes, you may want to wait a second, or turn around and turn back again and try it again.

This resets the meter in her mind, so to speak. When you turn around and turn back again, most people consider this to be a fresh start in a conversation. It's a strange loop-hole in psychology.

For some reason, that's how we are as humans. When someone turns away then turns back, we give them another chance moving forward. So if you're getting some resistance, turn around, turn back, smile, and continue. If she gives you resistance again, you probably should back off and find another woman.

If she's looking at your lips and seems to be very comfortable and excited, then proceed. You'll move in very closely and speak almost directly into her ear.


!Important!


In a loud environment like a bar, you'll want to speak louder, but don't raise your voice. Make your voice very low so that you have to be very, very close to her ear for her to hear.

Then you're going to keep talking... What I usually say is, "No one is going to see this. It's just going to be our little secret. I promise I won't tell anybody only if you promise that you won't tell anybody either."

As I'm saying this into her ear, I make sure that she's feeling my breath on her neck. So I'm sort of breathing out a little bit more than normal as I'm speaking so she can feel that hot air on her neck.

This usually gets a very visceral, deep, sexual response from women when you do this.

As you're speaking really close to her ear, you'll, very slowly, press your cheek against hers as you're talking. Then you'll move you head over so that your mouth is closer to hers, and then... you'll start kissing her.

And if you do this right, you start out with just one soft peck... then go straight into making out. It may not seem like it in this description, but 40 seconds is a long time. This process can happen in a lot less than 40 seconds - I've done it in less time, and I've seen other guys do it, too.


Practice It


What I want you to do is practice this approach. Maybe go for a minute or two at first, and then get to where you can do this in about 40 (or even 30) seconds.

You won't use this tactic all the time. But when the opportunity is right, it's really good to have this in your seduction arsenal. You want to make sure that you have the right kind of tools for the job, so to speak.

Whenever you see a girl who's in that state and ready to be seduced, if you beat around the bush, engage in small talk or generally waste time, she'll be turned off and you've lost a golden seduction opportunity.

Instead, when you spot this, you want to be able to see her, know that that's what she wants, go in, and give it to her immediately. This is the major difference between guys who are rock stars at walking up and seducing a woman... and guys who wish that they were great at quickly seducing a woman.

There are a lot of other success factors as well. There are techniques on how to speak with the right tonality... how to touch her that allows her to feel comfortable and doesn't turn off any of her weird alert switches... specific NLP triggers that you can use to connect and make sure she's totally in your zone.

What's taken me from a normal dude to a well-respected dating coach, is knowing a lot of short-cuts like this and knowing when to bring them out. And these short-cuts can also improve your game with women.

Remember these characteristics in women who want to be seduced, and remember – it is possible to make out with a woman in 40 seconds or less.

Discover my other top 3 "Seduction Secrets" in this special video presentation.

Guest Blog By PUA Josh Pellicer

Friday, March 1, 2013

Great Example of Personality


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